Big Brothers Big Sisters of America volunteers develop supportive relationships with kids, which helps them become more confident adults. However, the truth is, you’re never too old to find a mentor. Whether you’re looking for career advice or need insight on some other big life change, mentors are there to help you every step of the way. These networking strategies will help you meet your personal cheerleader for life.
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1. Look to people you know
Your work bestie probably has at least five people she can introduce you to—and each of those people has their own network too. (That’s just one reason it pays to be friendly at work.) Treat your coworker to lunch and ask if she knows anyone who’d want to mentor someone at your level. Be sure to explain what you’re looking for in the relationship, and offer to do the same for her.
2. Make an investment in your future
Trade organizations in your field can be a rich source of new connections—attend local seminars and panels, and consider any membership fees an investment in your career. No-cost options include joining a Facebook group, following thought leaders on Twitter (engage with them by retweeting and replying to their tweets) or requesting them on LinkedIn (personalize the scripted request so that you’ll stand out).
3. Build the relationship
Once you’ve identified a potential mentor, respect her time and offer to meet at her convenience. Keep emails and meetings on the shorter side and always offer to buy her coffee. You’re getting free advice—it’s the least you can do! Also, listen for what she needs: Maybe you have intern recommendations or can give her a crash course in Snapchat. The strongest mentor relationships are ones where you help each other. Finally, say thank you. Do it in person right away, then again via email later that night and/or with a handwritten note mailed to her office later that week.
Written by Yelena Shuster